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Things You Should Be COMFORTABLE Doing In-front Of Your MAN!

Okay, this is so exclusive right now, but I’ve been in some bad relationships[35 of them] yeah that’s some hoeish move, but yeah im soul searching (Hi Mom, Sorry Mom). Plus some I would even call toxic, but then again I’ve been in some fully functioning, happy and healthy ones. And the major differences I saw between the two were these:

Getting mad
You shouldn’t fear letting your man know when your upset. So many women are afraid to bring up an issue because the guy either punishes them by saying, “You’re being dramatic” (if he doesn’t just straight up leave) or he completely goes on the defense, making the issue ten times worse. Women can get pushed into a place of never expressing their thoughts about the relationship, for fear that it will make them more distant from their man, when that type of communication should make them feel even closer.
Getting mad (at others)
Are you not a totally demure, rolls with the punches, never complains type of woman? Good! They’re boring! But some women don’t want to go MADEA out on a cab driver who is clearly cheating her with the bill, or call out a friend who is being impossible to handle, or even curse out a guy who just said something sleazy to her in front of her man for fear of looking like a crazy MADEA. But guess what? It’s healthy to be a bit of a crazy you-know-what sometimes, and you want a man that is not only okay with that, but finds it attractive that you don’t let anyone step on you.
Crying
Women are constantly criticized for being too emotional, so much, so that you’ve become self-conscious during a breakdown saying im so emotional, im just thinking, “I’m such a girl.” Well…YEAH! You are a girl. Not to mention just an emotional human being. And believe it or not, your man wants you to be a girl. He will probably find it endearing that you’re comfortable falling apart in front of him. Truth is, men get off on making you feel better. Give him that chance and don’t go hide whenever you feel the need to cry. According to top psychology schools, though some men repel women who cry, some actually feel the need to comfort a crying woman because their testosterone levels are being reduced dramatically.
Being insecure
No woman is immune to the common things that make most women insecure. No woman. Every woman sometimes wonders if her man wishes she were more like his “cool” female friend who hangs with the guys. Every woman sometimes just needs to be told she is loved more often. Every woman has irrational days when she feels completely hideous and needs constant reassurance. That’s fine. Some men react poorly to that and will make you feel silly for it. But you want a man who hugs you, gives you that reassurance, indulges you in your momentary lapse of insecurity, and then forgets about it.
Looking unkempt
Do you have that girlfriend who has never allowed her boyfriend to let her see her in the morninsHOW do they do it? It beats me, but it’s also just not sustainable. And guess what else? Men feel closer to a woman when they get to hang in bed with her, looking the way she only looks at home. It makes them feel they’ve been let into her personal space, and that is a good thing.
Getting sick
know every woman gets insecure about it—bathroom issues. No matter what’s going on in there, no woman wants to admit to her boyfriend when she’s developing an intimate relationship with the toilet because she ate something bad! I’ve gone so far as to, on a vacation when I got sick, tell my baby I was going to hit the hotel tread mill for a bit. When I was really secretly praying to the porcelain gods in the gym bathroom. I don’t want to have to be that secretive again, and you shouldn’t have to either. If you’re going to spend your life with this person, they need to know that you are human.
Being affectionate to others
Are you an affectionate person? Do you just get the urge to hug your friends—including your male friends—when they say something hilarious or sweet? Physical closeness is a human need! You shouldn’t have to suppress that urge because of a jealous boyfriend. He should be secure enough in himself to know that just because you hug, or even kiss on the cheek, a male friend doesn’t mean you want to tear his clothes off. [Okay sometimes we do have that feeling, but then again, WE’RE HUMAN!!]
If you have any questions and need my honest opinion email be at shanewitter@gossipwelove.com.

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2 Comments

  1. Anonymous

    April 25, 2012 at 1:51 am

    @GWL owner **Shane** you a slut lol…boy you been getting it in!!!!

  2. Anonymous

    April 25, 2012 at 1:56 am

    I love this. and shane you bad lol

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